Too Much Drama For Your Mama...

Why are people so quick to talk smack on other people? Why does it make people feel better to make poor attempts to wreak havoc on others accomplishments and happiness? Listen, I'm guilty of some nay saying too, I’m no angel, however, every time I think about what I have said,  I need to check myself before I wreck oneself because I always regret being the Debbie downer of the bunch, always. Who has time for it really anymore? Kids? Work? Laundry? High school is long over and has been left in the dust between the awkward middle school years and the best college years of my lifeJ  

Something made me angry this week and it takes something very unnerving to make my blood boil.  Someone was talking ignorantly about me (and throughout the years has made talking about me a second language). Being the busy body that she is, she told another girl and hence, through ten games of telephone it got back to me. I can take criticism and welcome it to the fullest especially being a novice at this whole blog “ exposing my life and feelings” thing, but to say something one dimensional that is downright cruel simply to hear yourself talk reflects a strange, non fixable insecurity that I can’t even begin to touch.

Ladies and whatever gents are reading, this blog is about laughing out loud, honest mistakes, FEELING SOMETHING and most importantly connecting with other peoples trials and tribulations.  The blog is deeper than simply talking about the pair of jeans I bought yesterday on sale. If you can’t take the heat please step out of my kitchen or have the balls to speak up and dive in and start cooking. Raw criticism is welcomed, I love it, we can all grow from that, but snide side marks are just plain stupid. 

So I’m raising my half empty champagne glass to the people with a tainted sense of perspective, a rejection to feather ruffling and an impressive level of senselessness. This is my “Toast to the douchebags”, (thank you, Kanye). Didn't your mama ever tell you if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all at least not to people with big mouths? Or at the very least, fess up to the pettiness. Ladies, let’s be each other’s biggest fans! Step up to the plate and start playing fairly like the adults we all claim to be . BUT! I can take on a mean girl, been there, been that, done that, try me…